22, and starting over again

A little over a week ago, I turned 22! This year has been so wonderful to me in so many ways, and I am so so grateful for all that I’ve experienced this year. On my birthday, we went to see a Star Trek Symphony Concert. Student tickets were only $13/each compared to the $50+ of regular admission, and we sat about 7 rows from the stage.

This year, Kevin bought me a new laptop (birthday AND Christmas present, he says). I love it so much! I’ve been doing arch school with my 13″ 2012 MacBook Pro on Bootcamp, and then one day, the Windows partition got corrupted and I couldn’t access any files 😦 Instead of spending more time uninstalling and installing Bootcamp (the first time around took a long time), I decided to just get a new computer. That weekend, at Sam’s Club, we saw a Dell Inspiron 15, 15.6″ for $800 and just bit the bullet… I can’t believe how much more comfortable it is for the eyes to have a bigger screen!

Secondly, although at the start of the new year, I made plans to get stronger, that goal took a backseat to the hectic architecture school life. I’ve been away from the gym for so so so long 😦 I went back the other day, and it was SO hard. Squatting 95 lbs and just benching the bar was a challenge… However, after this, I still feel so hopeful that I can one day achieve the numbers I want.

I officially have 5 more week of school – and then after that, I will be finished with college! Yay!! College took me 4.5 years, and I cannot believe how many opportunities I got to experience. I will be the first in my family to get a college degree – and I am so excited to whatever adventures happens my way after this. I already have a big list ready 🙂



Why do I keep making mistakes at work?

I am writing this down so I can recognize and realize that this is becoming a problem for me. I keep making mistakes at work, like sending incomplete reports or sending reports with typos. Or emails with typos. My work is filled with errors here and there, but I want to get better. I do not know if it is because I am distracted. If I am, how can I be better? I am still working out a process for myself, but admittance is the first step to recovery.

Things I got from learning piano as an adult

As of September 2, 2016, I am 21 years old, which some may argue is not reeeaalllly an “adult” – I’m still sheltered away in university, after all. But since the law here in the U.S recognizes that the legal age is 18, and even bars will let me in, I’ll just call myself an adult… Indeed, I am older than the general audience of first time piano learners (who are around 5-10 years old), and all the piano method books consider a person my age as an adult.

I’ve never had the opportunity to learn the piano as a child, but I’ve always been interested in picking up an instrument. So, in my final semester of college, I enrolled in a Beginner’s Piano course. We are using Faber and Faber’s One-in-One Piano Adventures Book 1. So far, I have been enjoying it a lot. I realized piano is an instrument that is extremely hard to pick up on your own, so when the semester ends, I plan to look into enrolling with a teacher to continue to develop this hobby!

In the meantime, I’ve also picked up a Piano Scales and Chord Book 1 from the same publisher. It isn’t required for our class, but I hope that I can pick up on some things!

Goals are always important, so here are mine, for learning to play the piano:

  1. Use piano to develop good habits, like patience and gritPiano is one of those instruments that can’t be learned in a 3 hour sitting, if anything, a 3 hour sitting of piano is too long!
  2. Learn consistency of practice and training. Piano can be practiced for as little as 30 minutes/day. In piano pedagogy, more frequent, shorter intervals are actually more ideal since the brain needs time to learn new material.
  3. Learn to improvise. I recognize the importance of knowing how to read notes, but to me, an equally important skill would be learning how to improvise. Mistakes happen, and the only way is to move on. In piano, if you make a mistake, it would actually be more noticeable if you backtracked! So, we just have to keep going, and improvise.
  4. Learn to play by ear. I would love to be able to play a short tune without having a full sheet music in front of me 🙂

And that’s it, I just wanted to share my piano learning with y’all.

Thanks for reading! xoxo


Realizing the (infinite) limit of self-driving cars

I’ve always greatly admired Elon Musk. To get to the point, I am very curious at the inner workings of his mind. My hypothesis is that his mind works differently from a lot of ours – or maybe it was his upbringing – but he does not seem daunted by the details. Sending humankind to Mars? No problem. Creating self-driving cars? Only a starting point for what he wants to tackle on next.

Honestly however, I was a little skeptical of Musk’s ideas at first. Like, sending man to Mars? No thanks, I like Earth just fine. Or self driving cars? The “trained architect” in me is shouting “NO! It’ll only lead to more sprawl. I want PUBLIC TRANSIT!” But, I’ve always been a luddite, and I’ve always only jumped into the bandwagon after everyone else has tested the waters. I previously held the belief that self-driving cars will only contribute to more urban sprawl, and as a consequence, worsening traffic.

But, as MIT’s Senseable Lab pointed out, self-driving vehicles hold huge implications for not only safety, but traffic as well. They suggest that self-driving cars can have the potential to optimize a slot-based system interaction, not unlike those used for air- traffic control. In this system, each vehicle is assigned a “slot” for when to enter intersections, thereby eliminating the need for stop and go traffic.

One look at the video below will show all that needs to be said:


(Also, notice how the video started with a question that questioned everything we currently knew? That’s a good way to become smarter.)



June 2016 Portland

A belated post, but just wanted to share nonetheless. I went on a trip with Kevin to Portland from June 2-June 9, including a day trip to Seattle in that week. I’ve never been to Portland, but Kevin used to drive there every so often back in his college days at UW.

Here are some pictures from our trip!

What makes a leader?

Online advice says the best leaders are the ones who listens more than they talk.

I do not know if that is 100% true. The people that gets noticed are the ones who speak up, and aren’t afraid to ask. They are not afraid to interrupt. They know what they want and how to get it. They know how to phrase their questions to get to the root of the problems to create solutions. That is who I want to be.

What’s in a blog?

Lately, I’ve neglected blogging because I rationalized that I didn’t have the time to sit down and plan a comprehensive, thought provoking blog. And the fear of writing something that was just a blop, without any substance, was paralyzing, because I just didn’t want my thoughts published.

But now, I know how wrong that is. A blog doesn’t have to be a polished piece of work. Instead, it can just be a place to record all the thoughts in my head. Sometimes, I may revisit an idea I’ve held in the past, and realize that my positions have indeed change. Maybe they’ll grow more conservative, or more liberal, or somewhere in the middle.

The idea of a blog – this blog – or rather, the purpose of this blog, is a place for me to think about what I want to say. Hopefully, through this, I can grow better at communicating in my personal, work, and school life.